Jeudi, 24 mai 2012

SOMMES-NOUS TOUS DES MENTEURS?

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« Il faut beaucoup de courage pour affronter son erreur et beaucoup d'humilité pour oser l'avouer! » (Lolita Leblanc)

 
Depuis toujours, nous tentons d’inculquer la notion du bien à nos enfants. Le parent enseigne l’exemple, reste convaincu de faire pour le meilleur. Dans le futur, leurs descendants auront de bonnes manières et sauront comment agir en société. Ils deviendront des personnes honnêtes! Exactement comme vous… Devant le monde, il ne faut pas accepter ce qui pourrait choquer. On gronde le petit qui a volé le jouet de son ami ou qui a frappé son frère pour ne pas avoir à partager. Maman réagit vite, elle n’est pas contente :  « Tu as été méchant, on ne fait pas ça, excuse-toi. »

Mais s’excuser, ça veut dire quoi, dans la tête d’un gamin de 2 ou 3 ans? L’enfant répète le mot. La mère est contente et on passe à autre chose. Prenons-nous le temps de lui expliquer la chose? Peu le font. Peu jugent nécessaire de s’y appliquer. J’exagère… vous croyez!? S’amorce l’époque des bancs d’école. Arrive la gaffe, le coupable se fait prendre, les excuses s’imposent. Le parent est déçu, le fait savoir, exige la vérité, des excuses encore une fois et impose de ne plus recommencer. Le temps passe. L'occasion fait le larron. Faire des erreurs ou agir pour son confort comporte des responsabilités. Et les gestes qui vont avec pour se sortir du pétrin aussi. Le plus utilisé est sans doute le mensonge.



L’enfant vieillit, s’éveille à la vie, apprend et constate ce que plusieurs tentent de nier. Les adultes mentent tous les jours. Comment, tout le monde?! Vous n’êtes pas comme ça. Vous ne feriez jamais ce genre de chose devant vos enfants. JAMAIS!!!! Vous êtes certains? Pourtant, vous le faites tous les jours et à plusieurs reprises. Témoins ou pas. Pas vous, voyons! Combien se trouvent des excuses pour un retard dans leur emploi, pour une invitation qui ne les tente pas, pour une grippe qui n’existe pas? Cette fois, le mot « excuse » prend un tout autre sens, avouez.

Ces privautés se réalisent dans la réalité de notre progéniture qui, bientôt, si ne n’est déjà fait, sera confrontée à imiter ce qu’elle observe, ce qu’elle enregistre. Adolescent, l’enfant invente une raison pour justifier pourquoi il a oublié de remettre un truc qu’il a emprunté. Sans remords, il s’excuse pour ne pas ramasser sa chambre… pour avoir cassé une chose qui ne lui appartient pas… pour être passé tout droit le matin… papa et maman le font, pourquoi pas lui? L’âge adulte l’attrape dans ses filets, les notions et les comportements se modifient. S’adaptent chez certains. Comme une deuxième nature, mentir est plus facile que d’admettre ses torts ou s’être trompé. Juste la perspective incommode. S’excuser devient embarrassant. Pourquoi le faire?

TOUT LE MONDE MENT

On croise une connaissance, on lui demande comment elle va. Et on prie pour qu’elle dise : « Bien ». Même si c’est le contraire. Si la question nous est retournée, il est préférable de répondre la même chose. Inutile de dire autre chose… on n’a pas le temps. Et la route reprend, on continue de feindre pour ne pas faire de peine, pour ne pas mettre de l’huile sur le feu… pour avoir de l’avancement… pour se donner de l’importance… pour se rendre intéressant… pour écraser un rival… pour n’importe quoi.



Aurait-on peur de la vérité? Craignons-nous d’entendre des choses qui peuvent nous blesser, nous réveiller, remettre les pendules à l’heure? Quel genre de société sommes-nous devenus? Sommes-nous dirigés par des menteurs, sommes-nous soignés par des menteurs? Probablement. Autant que vous l’êtes vous-même… Alors, « Qui n’a jamais menti »… dit la bible. Inutile de terminer la phrase, personne ne pourrait jeter la première pierre.



Une chance que les nez n’agissent pas comme dans l’histoire de Pinocchio. Certains se promèneraient avec des perchoirs à oiseaux. Bon, en ce qui me concerne, je change ou non? Je promets de faire de mon mieux pour être honnête. Je risque de me brûler les ailes, mais ma récompense sera de me regarder le matin dans le miroir sans me sentir trop coupable d’être humaine.

En résumé… l’humain est un menteur compulsif!!!!!

SI VOUS AVEZ DES THÈMES SUR LESQUELS VOUS SOUHAITEZ VOUS EXPRIMER? , AUTRES QUE CELUI D'AUJOURD'HUI, N'HÉSITEZ PAS.

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